11. It’s a one-sided relationship, and that one side is all you: If someone wants you to be in their life they will make room for you. Why should you be the only one putting in all the effort while he does nothing? Why should you be the only one making the calls and checking up on him? Communication is a two-way thing. If he isn’t putting in any effort, he obviously are not a priority in his life.
So, if you’re in a relationship where you have to keep wondering where you stand, it’s high time you started thinking of moving on to something better. Gracefully walk away with your self-esteem intact.
Chances are that this guy is not looking for a real relationship at the moment or at least not the kind you’re looking for.
No one deserves to be anybody’s play thing or spare tyre. You deserve nothing less than the best, no matter where you’ve been or what you’ve been through. So don’t settle for anything less than the best.