Women hardly understand a man’s mind and his motivation.
When he spends so much time working, barely has time to talk or make plans of marriage or starting a family, she gets bothered and suspects he is cheating or Wonders if she’s not good enough. It’s not always about you, honey!
The pressure on a man magnifies with growth. He has to focus and pursue his dreams. It is encoded in a man’s DNA that he has to be a provider. A man wants to feel like he is number one. He wants bragging rights, things to show off. He cannot achieve this by fantasizing moments with you.
A man’s mind is designed differently from a woman’s mind. Men are not multitaskers. They like to have a single focus at a time. So, if he set to make something of himself, I’m sorry you’re not going to be his priority. He prefers to make preparations before making big steps.
So what do you do?
– Find your balance. Don’t be so demanding. Be sincere with yourself, you would be happier with a made man. If you can, get something doing so you dont have much idle hours.
– Contribute to his life. Show him your value is beyond beauty. Ask what his plans are and proffer advice.
–Be his peace. When he gets home, be a lady. Don’t nag or give him rude treatment. Welcome him, ask questions about his day and make him feel relaxed. Later on, you can say what you wish to in a polite way.
– Remember he is different. He’s not you, so he can’t love like you. Trying to change him will only get him frustrated Rather, try to understand him.
Note; This is just one possible reason why he is distant.