Blow his mind, girl.
Most women want to know how to please their men — in and out of bed. But guys aren’t always so verbal about what they need. Try these five strategies to please your man, S£xually and otherwise. Once you get the ball rolling and start figuring out the keys on how to please your man, you’ll start noticing he becomes more generous as a lover, and your relationship will become much more pleasurable as a whole.
1. Initiate, but read his cues.
Most men love when women initiate s*x. But at the same time, be aware that he might not always be in the mood. So pay attention to his cues and when you sense he might be in the mood, seize the moment and initiate intimacy. It takes a lot of courage to initiate s*x, but if your relationship is strong enough, you can get vulnerable and choose not to take it personally if he isn’t up for s*x when you are.
Choose your timing wisely. If he is watching the big game, don’t try to get frisky while he is engrossed in his favorite sport. Instead, tease him a bit during commercial breaks — bring him a fresh beer during a commercial break, wrap your arms around his neck and kiss him passionately. Then go about your business and watch the clock.
As soon as the game is over, go for it. Did his team win? Help him celebrate. Did they lose? Ask him if there is anything you can do to cheer him up. Think about how you like s*x initiated and then give him the same respect — pay attention to his moods and offer intimacy in a way that lets him know that you see and appreciate what is going on in his world.